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Permalink Reply by Jonathan Michael Martin on June 12, 2009 at 4:56am

Bro. It's natural to have these feelings. You are a human man, not a robot droid. Please, find a book or a magazine, go running, jogging, biking or paint something. Use the negativity to do something constructive. Remember...do any activity, as long as your not hurting yourself or any body else. Don't do anything your mother would not be proud of you for doing. Try writing your feelings down in a journal, writing some poems. Go out with some friends. Anything positive to take your mind elsewhere. Exercise will pull you out of the rut. We have got to distract you some how. There are so many other/better quality women for you. Just suit & boot up, go outside, talk to them. Also, there is nothing wrong with being single. You don't want to insult/offend those who are single either... Webmistress....Would you like to add anything?

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Permalink Reply by Asianeyes Webmistress on June 12, 2009 at 7:25am

Marco,

Jonathan said it very well. Yes, we will go through many broken hearts until we finally find that special someone. I have had my heart broken a few times in my life before I finally found the love of my life (my current boyfriend). I thought there were days I thought I would not be able to get through but I did.

I remember in one of my past relationships, I had a guy that I totally adored broke up with me. I must have cried for months. I had no energy. I felt that world was going to end for me. I decided one day to go to the bookstore and get some books on self-help. Books that contained positive information. One day I was laying in bed and looked out my bedroom window. The sun was shinng. The birds were singing. Suddenly, the hurtful feelings that I had were gone! I sprung on my feet and went for a walk. I past a gym and decided to join. Working out and writing positive books helped me get through.

I really enjoyed my single life for a while. I met new friends and went places that I would have never done. Besides, if I was stuck in a relationship where I was the one that loved and was not loved back, I would have never found this wonderful guy now. Funny how things turn out.

I want you to stay positive and know that you are worth more than this. You are still young and have the whole world before you. I promise you things will turn around once you think positive thoughts. Draw in positive energy. That way people are drawn towards you instead of away.

Please continue to write to this forum and let Jonathan and I know how you are.

Best,
Webmistress

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Permalink Reply by Jonathan Michael Martin on June 13, 2009 at 4:58pm

Marco bro, one more time,
That feeling your having is supposed to be there. It's a natural feeling. We all get it, but, handle it differently. You had invested time in this person, suddenly she/he is not there anymore. This feeling is a reminder that your a human. If you lacked these feelings, then there would be a great concern. Don't do anything crazy before asking me or webmistress, we are your trusted elders. We do not want anything tangible or intangible from you. We are simply, just, here. Now, who's buyin coffee?

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